Lady, Don’t Sleep on That Bed! By Pastor (Mrs) Folu Adeboye

Hello excellent lady and young man. I want to show you a ‘bed’ that you must not sleep on if you don’t want to lose your best in life. It is on this bed many winners are later declared losers. This bed is so attractive and captivating that everyone like to sleep on it but just a single sleep on it can make your destiny slip off your hands. I have seen great ladies, full of passion, vision, grace, beauty, gifts, talents, aspiration been reduced to nonentity and mediocrities just because of this bed. I know you are eager to know what bed I am talking about here. I will tell you, just follow me as you read on.

We have three types of bed as far as sex is concern. We have:

PRE- MATRIMONY BED
MATRIMONY BED.
EXTRA-MATRIMONY BED. (1 Corinthians 15-20, Hebrew 13: 4, 1 Thess. 4:3-4)

Because of space, I will not talk about the other two types of bed. I want to talk about the one that really concerns you as a single lady.

PRE-MATRIMONY BED:

This is the bed of sex before marriage. This is the bed of pre-marital sex. Now listen to me princess, this bed is so common in our generation that those who are not sleeping on it are regarded as outdated or old-fashion. Any time you go into sex with any guy, it is on this bed you are sleeping. I need to let you know that this bed has peculiarities, you don’t sleep on it and stand up and remain the same. This bed alters your life inside out. Once you are on this bed, the following things will automatically happen:

1. You make a deposit: Young lady, let it be known to you that premarital sex is more than ‘put it’ and ‘remove it’. It is not just for fun. You make some deposit during your adventure on this destiny-destroying bed of pre-marital sex. You deposit your glory, virtue, your joy, your confidence, your virginity, your integrity, your life into the life of the one you are having sex with. Every deposit you make during sex before marriage makes you a loser because you lose those things.

2. You make a withdrawal: During pre-marital sex with that your boyfriend, man- friend, sugar-daddy or whatever you call him, you make a withdrawal. You automatically withdraw pains, shame, guilty conscience, curses, sexual transmitted diseases, wrath of God, distorted vision, unwanted pregnancy, aborted future, damaged womb, and eternal punishment in hell if you refuse to repent before death closes your eyes.

3. You incur God’s judgment: (Heb.13:4). “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whore mongers and adulterers God will judge.” Divine judgement awaits anyone who goes to premarital bed of sex. It could be very severe. Only God could determine the extent of this judgement.

4.Demonic Access: Demons of Asmodee, immorality, spiritual wife or husband etc. automatically gains access into the life of anyone who goes to this bed.

5. Loss of divine and family inheritance: (Gen.34:1:31, 49:1-end). Jacob have 13 children. (12 males and 1 female). Dinah was the only daughter of Jacob. She slept on this bed and lost all family and divine inheritance. She was never mentioned again in the entire Bible and her father did not pronounced any family blessings on her because of sex without marriage.

Why Ladies Sleep on This ‘Bed’. The following are the reasons why ladies ‘sleep’ on pre-matrimony bed and there by getting agony instead of harmony.

1. Pressure and Pleasure of the world: It can be pressure from friends, from boy friend, fiance, bosses, lecturers, teachers, etc. Don’t allow any pressure or pleasure to push you into the bed of immorality; you will pay dearly for sex before marriage. (Gen. 34:1-31, Prov. 1:10,)

2. Ignorance: Many married men are taking advantage of the ignorance of young ladies to lure them into this bed of sexual perversion. Be wise! (Hosea 4:6).

3. Wrong Information: Many ladies have been wrongly informed by their friends, movies and worldly magazines that love is sex and that, the best way to show love to that guy is to have sex with him. That is wrong, that is a lie!

4. Broken Home: Many ladies from broken homes engage in premarital sex as they lack true parental supervision and godly training. Dear, don’t allow the fact that you came from a broken home to give you a broken destiny. Refuse to destroy your life through immorality.

5. Indiscipline: If you lack self-control, you will be an easy prey to guys and they will lure you into sex to damage your destiny. ( Prov. 25: 28).

6. Idleness: If you are always idle, you will cuddle sin, especially sexual sin.

7. Financial Problem: Many ladies offer their body for sex with their boyfriends, sugar daddies just to get money to buy clothes, pay school fees, etc. if you are guilty of this, you are purely a prostitute. Repent fast, work hard & make money through your hand and not body.

8. Curiosity: Many ladies are just too curious to know how “it feels and tastes like’ to have sex. Be careful of unholy curiosity.

Let me stop here for now, I know you have been touched by God through this write up. Are you already sleeping on this bed of immorality through your involvement in sex as a single lady or man?

Are you still a virgin and your flesh, friends and feeling are pushing you to have a taste of this bed of sex before marriage? I want to plead with you because I strongly believe in your colourful destiny.

Please, don’t sleep on this bed! If you have slept on this bed before, quickly run to God now for mercy and forgiveness in the name of Jesus with cleansing by the blood of Jesus. Forsake further attempt of going to this bed. Please, never go there again! Pre- marital sex destroys faster than anything. Run from sex before marriage. Don’t sleep on that bed. I warn you! May God help you in Jesus Name!

GOD BLESS YOU